What Birth Order means for Your Child

• “A first born son usually feels a greater connection with his mother and at times may clash with his father. In any situation of family conflict, he looks to be his mother's protector.”
• “Mentally focused and physically strong, the first born girl presents a powerful physical presence. She gathers and preserves the family, sometimes overpowering others with her confidence and driving sense of responsibility.”

Does that sound familiar? The text comes from an online tool, Kidspot’s Birth Order Index. I don’t know about your family, but it’s scarily accurate in mine. Have a look (you don’t need to type in full names, an initial will do if privacy’s an issue) - it’s heaps of fun. Don’t only do your own children - also check out the households you and your partner grew up in!

The Rayid Model™ has been used around the world since 1970s. It gives insights into personality and relationship patterns, and the influence of family-tree dynamics on our children’s development and well-being.